In memory of our beloved Jodie - loyal and loving sister, daughter and friend

My sister, Jodie Lee Miller, was just 41 when she was diagnosed with Stage 4 bowel cancer, a devastating blow that followed years of misdiagnosed symptoms. 

A trailblazer like our father, Jodie was a Fitter & Turner, a skilled tradeswoman who inspired others. She was a key member of the "Tradeswomen on the Move" project. This incredible group championed women in trades, speaking to schools and the media to encourage more girls to pursue careers in traditionally male-dominated fields. 

After completing her apprenticeship, Jodie embarked on a successful career at the Australian Submarine Corporation, where she was highly respected for her skills and dedication for over two decades. 

For years, Jodie endured a persistent upset stomach, severe abdominal pain and constipation. These symptoms worsened, leading to anaemia and debilitating fatigue. Despite these challenges, she continued to work full time. After multiple visits to her GP, a doctor finally recognised the severity of her condition. Blood tests revealed dangerously low haemoglobin levels, indicating significant blood loss. He was shocked that she was even standing. 

Jodie was immediately sent to the local hospital for blood transfusions and an urgent colonoscopy. The results were devastating: the colonoscopy revealed a bowel obstruction caused by stage 4 cancer, which had spread beyond her bowel into her perineum and lymph nodes. 

Following surgery, Jodie endured gruelling rounds of radiotherapy and chemotherapy. Our parents, especially Mum, a nurse, provided unwavering support, relocating to Adelaide for months to be by her side. Despite the challenges of treatment, including nausea, vomiting, hair loss, and blood clots, Jodie remained determined. She relocated back to our  family home and cherished every moment with her nieces and nephews, filling her days with joy and laughter, which helped her stay strong and continue the fight.. 

Tragically, after two years of chemotherapy which incorporated a fortnightly 600km roundtrip to Adelaide for each treatment, the cancer continued to spread. Despite exploring clinical trial options, the disease progressed, and treatment was ultimately discontinued. 

During this difficult time, our father was battling heart failure. Mum dedicated herself to caring for both of them, a heartbreaking period that culminated in Dad's passing in July 2014. Just a few short months later, on October 10 2014, Jodie also succumbed to the disease. Their bond was inseparable, and they are now at peace together. 

If Jodie were here today, her message would be clear: "Listen to your body and advocate for your own health." 

The increase in bowel cancer awareness over the past decade is a testament to the tireless work of organisations like the Jodi Lee Foundation. I urge everyone to learn more about the symptoms and take action to prevent this devastating disease. 

By sharing Jodie's story, I hope to raise awareness and encourage others to prioritize their health.